Value of MONEY or Value of HAPPINESS

Some say you are a Housewife, Lucky YOU!! You have ample of free time to take rest, enjoy your life.. While some say, Oh! You are a housewife, you were such Career Oriented, What Happened to you? So much change in you!!

So my Answer to each and everyone out there, "THIS IS MY LIFE, I OPT WHAT IS GOOD FOR ME AND WHAT NOT".

So coming back to the topic of this article,  VALUE OF MONEY OR VALUE OF HAPPINESS, I will give a short Narration on my life here and then you decide what is important, MONEY OR HAPPINESS.

I could have chosen my career and I am sure I would have grown very successful in it, but I am also sure I would not grow a person as I have grown NOW. I would be so much surrounded by the words like CAREER, DESIGNATION, PROMOTIONS, HIKES and the main word MONEY that I would forget about the other side of the world. I would be Happy with my career but what about other things? Would I get time to think about my HOBBIES? My PASSION? My Husband's NEEDS, My family NEEDS and not to forget MY NEEDS.

And the Answer is 'NO' without even a second thought.

I am not bad mouthing, or insulting working women here, I am just saying Life would not be same. Even if you want to concentrate on these things, you are not allowed due to time constraint or work pressure.

SO I CHOSE MY HAPPINESS RATHER THAN MONEY.

Yes I am a Housewife.

The word housewife may look very simple who stays at home and does daily household chores as if it is her birth duty but how many of them actually do it? So for me the word housewife is WIDE.

SO WHY DO I SAY IT AS A WIDE TERM??

I chose to be housewife, I chose to cook my own food, I chose to do my house work, I chose to serve my husband and family, I chose my passion of cooking for my husband and see the happiness on his face and that gives a such a content feeling that no Money can buy!!
I just dont cook, I also post the videos of my cooking on Youtube which helps people to learn new recipes!
Recording a recipe step by step, editing it like a pro, making bits and pieces is not a ordinary task you need to agree on that. It needs a lot of patience and for me it was more difficult as I was a person with low patience level.
SO I SAY I GREW AS A PERSON HERE!! IT MADE ME MORE CALM AS A PERSON AND MORE PASSIONATE TOWARDS MY COOKING!!

BUT NOW THAT MAKES ME HAPPY EVEN THOUGH PEOPLE ASK ME WHY DO YOU THE CHARITY WORK THOUGH YOU DONT EARN THROUGH IT??

"I DO IT FOR MY PASSION"

I was a creative person since childhood and would love putting my hands on DIY's.
Being a housewife I got a chance in doing all my love for creative work. I have learnt making my own jewellery and it is such a feeling which you cannot explain ( I never thought I would do that though).
How many of you have enjoyed the fruits of your hardwork? My answer is' I HAVE'. Here I mean I grew my own vegetables and fruits you get of your gardening efforts is such sweet!!
You cannot imagine the happiness of that..

DO YOU FEEL HAPPY THE SAME WAY WHEN YOU BUY VEGETABLES??

HEHEHE...

To rest the case I want to conclude by saying.. I have done so much things being Housewife like baking my own cake, knitting, decorating my home with DIY's etc etc etc., You can literally ask me What not have I tried??

I feel so content, I thank God I chose to be  housewife and did all these things which I could not have done if I would chosen Money. Atleast I fulfilled my wish of saying I have attempted everything by my own and that makes me so happy!

YES I CHOSE TO BE HAPPY HOUSEWIFE RATHER THAN CHOOSING MONEY!!

SO WHAT DO YOU THINK ABOUT IT? MONEY OR HAPPINESS?

Signing off..

Nismitha Bhat☺️